“Humble to the dust, open a flower.” — Zhang Ailing
When we fall in love with someone, we can feel inferior out of control.
No matter how eloquent, confident, and proud you are on a daily basis; But in front of the people you love, you feel inferior.
At that moment, it seems that the other person is high up, looking down on you.
And your love can only look up to him.
The other side left you with the impression that “only can be viewed from a distance, not obscene.”
This is the effect of the halo effect in psychology.
When you fall in love with someone, they are perfect in our eyes.
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”
Maybe the other party is not excellent in the evaluation of the outside world, but in your heart, he is the best person.
Therefore, we will feel inferior; Love is so, fall in love with a person, can not restrain a sense of inferiority.